“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.”
― Søren Kierkegaard
It is time to embrace the new, but first, I need to release the old. I am not one to make New Year resolutions anymore. Every year at this time, I have vowed to lose weight…exercise more…eat better…and ___________ (fill in your own resolution). However, nothing…absolutely NADA has stuck with me for very long.
Instead, I make daily resolutions…sort of like my goals I want to accomplish for the day. That way I don’t have to live with unfulfilled expectations and I can do little things each day. At any rate, the temptation to “resolve” is strong at this time of the year! So here is a tip: The resolutions most likely to be kept are the ones rooted in reflection.
Nicaraguans have mastered the skill of reflection and of letting go through their unique Muñecos, or stuffed dolls packed with gun powder. They symbolize blasting away their vices of the past year, and ushering in the new year with a clean slate. I like that concept. However, it takes reflection to make it work.
Last year, I made a Muñeca, or a woman doll. A Muñeca New Year
This New Year, I think I will spend a quiet day reflecting on the past year because life can only be understood backwards.
I made a list of my top five year-end questions to help me through my reflective process.
Then, I will be ready to usher in the New Year with a BANG!